Tuesday, August 8, 2017

Building a Library or Losing My Mind?

So. I went to another community garage sale at a local church the weekend before last. And I also took a nice long walk through a neighborhood yard sale. The deals were great -- $0.50-$1 per book (and one that was even free!) The church sale had an even better deal -- fill a bag for $5. Did I fill a bag? Of course, I filled a bag. I was there towards the end and even though the books were likely pretty well picked over, I still found some great stuff. And since my bag wasn't quite full, I even threw in a few extras we already had because I know a local literacy organization those titles would be perfect to donate to. I can't say for sure that any leftovers from the sale would end up in a dumpster or recycling bin (hopefully not!) but I didn't want to leave those few behind knowing I could pass them on somewhere they will be used and appreciated.


As fun as it was to go treasure hunting and find great titles to add to our home library, I do sometimes wonder if I've gone overboard with the whole thing. My philosophy has always been that a book never has to be wasted. If I change my mind or decide I don't want to keep something, there are so many places to pass books onto. A large percentage of my books are bought used, as overstock, and/or inexpensively. My biggest book splurges are when I buy at my local indie bookstore, but I very much like supporting a local business I want to stick around for years to come, so I call it money well spent. And I love lending out books to friends and family -- so I always like to think they are not just for me, even if they are mostly for me (and my son). I'd like to think that someday I'll be that mom who'll recommend/lend books to my kid's friends. If my kid won't take my suggestions by then, I hope there will be another trusted mom (or dad!) he will take recommendations from. Because, you know, it's cooler when it's not your mom (or so Anne Bogel tells me!)

But I'm out of shelf space. Again.

I did a pretty big culling a while back and it felt great to have space on my shelves again. But I only went on to fill that space with books that are a better fit for my family right now and in the foreseeable future -- namely, picture books, children's novels, and middle grade. And they're awesome! But I enjoy and connect with so many book/reading/literacy blogs, sites, and podcasts -- that I get all jazzed up about new-to-me titles on a regular basis. The excitement of the teachers, educators, and parents who run these things is truly infectious. This is absolutely a good thing, but I do sometimes wonder if I've gone overboard. I know that when I'm tired and can't concentrate very well, a browse at a bookstore or on Book Outlet's website is such a fun thing to do. It certainly takes less brain power than, you know, actually reading. I stock up on all those great books I've been hearing about, but then realize I've potentially squandered some of the time I could have spent reading them.

So what's a bookworm to do? Reading and literacy are so very important, so I know the answer is not to quit listening to inspiring podcasts or to cut back on reading time (the horror!). But for now, I'm trying to use my limited options approach to help guide me -- if it's not a book I want to add to that small stack, I'm trying to pass on the purchase. The community garage sales ($5 a bag!) throw a bit of a monkey wrench in that plan, but I'm not sure I can bring myself to feel guilty about used books -- whether they are fill-a-bag-cheap, or even more typically priced at a used bookstore. But I do know that I need to spend less time overall browsing, researching, and shopping -- both online and offline. In fact, this was one of my 2017 Bookish Goals and I think now is a good time to recommit to that. In fact, with almost five months left in the year, I think I should re-evaluate and check-in on all those goals (post soon!).

So, to make a long story short: Read more, browse/shop less. It's not really that hard, right?

10 comments:

  1. I've been the same way. I fell more interested in reading from the library than from what I have at home. So I try to read some of my stashes at home each month. Working on doing that right now.

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    1. It's a work in progress for sure! The library just has so many choices!

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  2. I love buying books from the Friends of the Library Used Bookstores as I feel like I am helping to support the library. Plus, I've also donated books I no longer want (or dvds and cds) to FOL Used bookstores in the past to help the library earn extra money. I feel like it's money well spent.

    I do support independent bookstores as well. I love attending author signings at indie bookstores, so I end up purchasing books I want signed by authors at full price.

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    1. My library doesn't have a store, but two pretty well stocked bookcases that they use to sell books they are discarding -- I agree I like that the money is going to the library -- and they're such deals -- I brought home a stack a couple weeks ago for less than $3! So it can be a little dangerous...

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  3. You are finding used books a good new home! :)

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  4. I see James Herriot in that stack!! I love his books so much.

    I love your philosophy of never "wasting" a book. Even if you don't read it, you can pass it on to someone you will, and that's just as valuable.

    Besides, $5 a bag is just too good to pass up! :)

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    1. My son likes that one too -- "sheep mama!"

      And a $5 bag of used books really is just too good to pass up :)

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  5. We have the same book buying habits and attitudes. I bought 11 books in the past 2 weeks, this is too many! Ha ha. But I buy faster than I read. Today I gave 5 I've read to the public library, which is always a good feeling.

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    1. I started a log to track books bought and read/not read in 2017 for a challenge -- and it is embarrassing how many pages I've filled in in that notebook! I remind myself that lots are picture books or children's/classics for our family library but STILL. I buy way faster than I read for sure especially with the used book stores and garage sales, so I really should slow it down!

      Culling and passing on books is a great feeling! Sharing the bookish love and lightening the shelves a bit at the same time :)

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